The most important part of life is love because included in it is all the virtues and joys of the world. The horrible side of abuse is it robs the victim of the hope for love. It hardens them, making them wary and unaccepting of love.
The first side of healing is learning to love yourself again, with the tragedies that have happened. Because you were victimized does not mean you're alone or even a rare minority. Abuse is prevalent, even in these "civilized" times. You aren't some freak of nature that deserved it somehow. You're human, a wonderful person problems and all. And you are worthy of love. And guess what? You'll love again and be loved truly, deeply and even passionately. Believe!
Connect with me at Officially Lacresha Hayes, and visit my website for more information on my books. I look forward to being your healing partner.